Triton UBF– Teddy Hembekides’ Secret
Gregory Theodore "Teddy" Hembekides , the current chapter director of Triton UBF chapter was interviewed for a T.V. broadcast back in 1997 during the Satanic panic regarding UBF being cult-like. The video and the transcript was believed to have lost forever but fortunately my friend not only archived the content but it is now once again public.
Here’s a transcript of the news report:
Cults have earned a lurid, far-out reputation after a serious of catastrophic events, most recently the suicide deaths of the “Heaven’s Gate” cult.
But tonight one family is claiming: Religious groups don’t have to be that extreme to be dangerous.
Mark Suppelsa is here with a special report.
Mark Suppelsa: One particular religious group answers by asking tonight: “What’s so dangerous about studying the Bible?” A western [Chicago] suburban family says, they thought their son was joining a simple Bible study group he had met on the college campus. But they now angrily claim: It changed their lives.
A star athlete, his high school wrestling awards decorate the family’s basement walls. His parents won’t show you his picture, but will say, he was a loving, all-American boy, until he hooked up with one religious group.
Jim Savage (father): “This is a dangerous group. What they did to my son, nobody should be allowed to do that, in the United States of America.”
Teddy Hembekides (UBF pastor): “I’m not a dangerous man, and my group is not dangerous.”
He’s Teddy Hembekides, pastor at this River Grove branch of the “University Bible Fellowship,” or UBF, the house, where Jim and Sandy Savage say they have lost the son they used to know.
Jim Savage: “He never came home. I mean, he did came home, but he never really came home.”
Sandy Savage (mother): “He’s changed, and I just feel there’s a wall between us sometimes. There is that – that ripping away, that they did.”
On the Internet, Teddy Hembekides is listed as director of the “Triton College UBF.” In fact, the college in River Grove has no association with this group, Triton calling this “deception.” The Savages claim UBF deceived their son, into thinking it was a simple Bible study, when eventually it demanded total commitment.
Jim Savage: “He had cut off from all of his friends, cut off from us in all respects, and I wasn’t going to let that happen.”
Hembekides says there is no deception: “My conscience – I say that I have never taught anyone to leave the family or hate the family, especially not that family.”
But the Savages say, their biggest problem came later, when after a few years their son finally started talking to them about leaving the group.
Jim Savage: “My son says to my daughter, he says: ‘I’m thinking about leaving this group.’ And she says: ‘Well, leave.’ He says: ‘You don’t understand. You just don’t get up there and leave a group like this.’ And she says: ‘Yeah, you do, and if you’re in any church and you think something isn’t right, you just get up and you leave.’ And he says: ‘No, you don’t understand.’”
Reporter: “They are free to go?”
Hembekides: “Of course.”
Reporter: “Without any harassment on your part?”
Hembekides: “There is no harassment. Why should there be any harassment? We try our best to live by the Bible teaching, by the words of Christ Jesus and by the life style that is spelled out to us in the Bible.”
The Savages say, their son, now 25, left the group permanently in December of 1995, saying one sign his involvement changed their relations: He now lives with his grandparents. Their son refused our request for an interview.
Here's the footage on Tumblr: https://ubfriends.tumblr.com/search/triton%20ubf